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Not that this affects a great number of you, but I’ve updated our blog to include mobile browser compatibility. So fire up your BlackBerries, Android devices, iPhones, iPod Touches, Palms, and whatever else tickles your fancy for “Letters from Pemberley” on the go!

Billy Ward was what the Scotch tenderly call an “innocent,” for though thirteen years old, he was like a child of six. He had been an unusually intelligent boy, and his father had hurried him on too fast, giving him all sorts of hard lessons, keeping at his books six hours a day, and expecting him to absorb knowledge as a Strasburg goose does the food crammed down its throat. He thought he was doing his duty, but he nearly killed the boy, for a fever gave the poor child a sad holiday, and when he recovered, the overtasked brain gave out, and Billy’s mind was like a slate over which a sponge has passed, leaving it blank. (Little Men, Ch. 2)

Now, we don’t go in much for brain-fever caused by over-studying today, but Alcott certainly feels strongly about the grammar stage as it was misapplied in the 19th century!  Little Men is quite an interesting book when read as a declaration of educational philosophy.  Only…how did the Plumfield pupils manage to spend so stinking much time outside observing nature while living in Massachusetts?  Were winters there in the 1870s just a lot milder than Pennsylvania winters in the 2010s?  I think an Alcott/Mason approach to education would be way easier in, say, Malibu than the Northeast!

Dorothy Sayers on Education

I’ve been thinking a lot about education lately, and good talks with the Gaetanos this week reminded me to pull up Dorothy Sayers’ “Recovering the Lost Tools of Learning” to remind myself why I’m into the classical model.  Of course everyone should read the whole thing, but here are some selected quotes that resonate with me:

Is not the great defect of our education today–a defect traceable through all the disquieting symptoms of trouble that I have mentioned–that although we often succeed in teaching our pupils “subjects,” we fail lamentably on the whole in teaching them how to think: they learn everything, except the art of learning…In certain of the arts and crafts, we sometimes do precisely this–requiring a child to “express himself” in paint before we teach him how to handle the colors and the brush. There is a school of thought which believes this to be the right way to set about the job. But observe: it is not the way in which a trained craftsman will go about to teach himself a new medium.

(To me, the biggest problem with child-led education is that the child doesn’t know what he doesn’t know.  He may be able to get some pleasant sounds out of a piano, but he’ll never be able to play Chopin etudes without learning to play scales, read music, etc.  I find that most children I’ve been around, especially my son, quickly grow frustrated with “expressing themselves” without having been given the tools to do it properly.)

The whole of the Trivium was, in fact, intended to teach the pupil the proper use of the tools of learning, before he began to apply them to “subjects” at all. First, he learned a language; not just how to order a meal in a foreign language, but the structure of a language, and hence of language itself–what it was, how it was put together, and how it worked. Secondly, he learned how to use language; how to define his terms and make accurate statements; how to construct an argument and how to detect fallacies in argument. Dialectic, that is to say, embraced Logic and Disputation. Thirdly, he learned to express himself in language– how to say what he had to say elegantly and persuasively.

(She explains in detail how this process works in each subject area, but as a writing teacher, I find this application to language so true of my own experience.)

Taken by and large, the great difference of emphasis between the two conceptions holds good: modern education concentrates on “teaching subjects,” leaving the method of thinking, arguing, and expressing one’s conclusions to be picked up by the scholar as he goes along; mediaeval education concentrated on first forging and learning to handle the tools of learning, using whatever subject came handy as a piece of material on which to doodle until the use of the tool became second nature.

(It’s really a fundamentally different way of approaching education…)

For we let our young men and women go out unarmed, in a day when armor was never so necessary. By teaching them all to read, we have left them at the mercy of the printed word. By the invention of the film and the radio, we have made certain that no aversion to reading shall secure them from the incessant battery of words, words, words. They do not know what the words mean; they do not know how to ward them off or blunt their edge or fling them back; they are a prey to words in their emotions instead of being the masters of them in their intellects.

(Sayers wrote this in 1947; how much more relevent are her observations in 2011!)

I recognize three states of development. These, in a rough-and- ready fashion, I will call the Poll-Parrot, the Pert, and the Poetic–the latter coinciding, approximately, with the onset of puberty. The Poll-Parrot stage is the one in which learning by heart is easy and, on the whole, pleasurable; whereas reasoning is difficult and, on the whole, little relished. At this age, one readily memorizes the shapes and appearances of things; one likes to recite the number-plates of cars; one rejoices in the chanting of rhymes and the rumble and thunder of unintelligible polysyllables; one enjoys the mere accumulation of things.

(What parent of a toddler or preschooler does not recognize this poll-parrot description?  Or are my kids the only ones who go around reciting random things in a sing-song voice?)

The modern tendency is to try and force rational explanations on a child’s mind at too early an age. Intelligent questions, spontaneously asked, should, of course, receive an immediate and rational answer; but it is a great mistake to suppose that a child cannot readily enjoy and remember things that are beyond his power to analyze–particularly if those things have a strong imaginative appeal (as, for example, “Kubla Kahn”), an attractive jingle (like some of the memory-rhymes for Latin genders), or an abundance of rich, resounding polysyllables (like the Quicunque vult).

(The classical model is not accelerated education; rather, it focuses on teaching children how to learn with developmentally-appropriate steps.)

Our Harrisburg Adventure

So we don’t do day trips the easy way.  Yesterday we had a simple plan: drive down to Harrisburg, meet the Gaetanos at the State Museum of PA, play and hang out all day, and come home.  Yeah.

The kids were so excited until we pulled up in front of the museum.  Then Elizabeth started throwing up again and again and, well, 3 or 4 times.  Tommy looked over and started puking, too.  My amazing husband kept his cool and kept driving us over to a gas station, where he got out in the pouring rain and started cleaning Elizabeth off while I tended to Tommy.  Of course all their clothes and the carseats were covered, but we wiped them off with diaper wipes as best we could and started searching for options for them to wear.  Fortunately, their shoes and socks had escaped, but we didn’t have much to put them in.  Tommy had a pair of shorts at the bottom of the diaper bag left over from potty training accident days, but Elizabeth had to settle for Derek’s undershirt.  So much for the cute outfits they’d picked out so excitedly that morning!  I ran the kids across the street to the museum and left Derek with the lovely tasks of finding a laundromat, cleaning up the carseats enough for us to take the kids home in them, and getting the stink out of the car as best he could.

Fortunately, Dominic and Cate are the same size as our kids, and Amy happened to have an extra pair of Cate’s leggings for Elizabeth and a fleece hoodie that Tommy could wear.  Once they were dressed again, both of them were totally fine–it was pretty clearly a classic case of carsickness from the winding roads down to Harrisburg.  So we had a fun morning in the kid’s center of the museum, watching the kids play and talking Hillsdale/Pepperdine.  Derek finally made it back for a late lunch, then we headed over to a playhouse cafe where the kids amazingly skipped their naps and played for another couple of hours while we lounged and had coffee.

Tommy chattered on and on about how much fun he had with Dominic for most of the way home.  Of course Derek’s day had to end with a torrential rainstorm once it got dark, the kind where you’re white knuckled, hoping that no one else on the road idiotically drives too fast.  We’re home safely, and I get to spend the day deoderizing the van as best I can!  We really do hope to have one more play date with the Gaetanos before we both move this summer, though hopefully with a bit less excitement than this one…

This and That

Kiddos posin’

Fashionista stylin’

Colorin’

Morning Coloring

Both kids are really on a coloring kick of late.  Elizabeth is at the point where she can get down the crayon bin and paper from the shelf and put it on the table so that she can get to work while I make breakfast.  Selecting a “ollow” (color) is a serious process…

Resolved

  • I will sit down and eat with my kids at mealtimes (instead of multitasking by unloading the dishwasher, doing Bible study prep, or whatever else I find to do while they’re both contained).
  • I will use my random tiny breaks during the day to review some old scripture memory passages instead of darting down to check my email.  (Which one would I rather have my kids see me do?)
  • I am pretty much caught up on household things, which means that I can drop whatever I’m doing this week when the kids ask me to read to them.  (I can’t think of anything that’s really more important than that right now, though there are times where they have to learn to wait.)

Ten Inches of Snow

For those days next winter when we say that we miss snow, a little reminder…

Potty Party

I’m always signing up for free samples of things, and last month I won the chance to host a Huggies Pull-Ups Potty Party.  (Shameless commercialism, but hey, I got free pull-ups out of it!)  It’s one of those things that you never imagined you’d do before you had kids…a party all about using the potty?!?!

Anyway, today was the big party day, and Isaac, Olivia, and Teagan came over for one fun party including coloring their own guitars, dancing to the Potty Dance music video, and teaching their dollies how to use the potty.  Fun stuff!  Now I have the Potty Dance song stuck in my head, and hopefully Elizabeth is more excited about using the potty. 

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