Grandma stocked our freezer before she left, but I forgot to pull anything out the night before. Oops.
I have so many little matters to tell you of, that I cannot wait any longer before I begin to put them down.
Aug 12th, 2015 by ECM
We took Grandma back to the airport this afternoon, but while Tommy was at soccer camp this morning, we girls had one last tea party together.
Aug 7th, 2015 by ECM
Aug 3rd, 2015 by ECM
It’s been over a month since I broke my foot, and it’s still painful. I feel like that’s not a good sign, so I might call up the doctor’s office this week and ask. Since this was our first broken bone, I have nothing to compare it to. We had help with meals for a couple weeks, which was awesome, and now we’re just trying to scrape together leftovers and scrounge in the cupboards until my mom gets here in 24 hours, not that I’m counting. I was really good about doing nothing all weekend, with the result that my foot felt better, but this morning we had no clean clothes, the house was a dump, and there was nothing to eat. I pushed and tried to do some laundry and clean-up today, with the result that I fell off my knee walker not one, not two, but three times. Each time I tried to avoid hitting my foot, and it is in the boot for some protection, but I definitely can’t keep leaning too far, slipping, or just tripping over toys. My foot is throbbing again tonight from all the jarring, my back is killing me from falling funky, and I’m hoping that Maisie Dobbs will help distract me enough to fall asleep. Argh.
Aug 1st, 2015 by ECM
Jul 31st, 2015 by ECM
Jul 29th, 2015 by ECM
We’re moving to Malibu this fall! After four years on the waiting list, we’re finally moving onto Pepperdine’s campus. Pepperdine has two neighborhoods of subsidized faculty housing, and we’re moving to the top of Baxter Drive, up the street from our friends the Andersons AND from Derek’s office. I had become happy in Thousand Oaks, but over the past year, a lot of frustrating things have been happening with our house, and I totally had a change of heart and was open to moving. We’re bursting at the seams, several things all broke down at once (culminating in Easter weekend with no dishwasher, half a sink, and company in town), and our landlord informed us rather suddenly in April that they wanted to sell our house. I panicked, Derek called his boss and told her we needed to move on campus NOW, and we asked a lot of people to pray. Pepperdine couldn’t have been slower and more secretive with the whole process, and I was ready to throw in the towel and look for other places out here in the valley, when suddenly we got word that we were one of the lucky four families to get on campus, and could we come look at the potential units and rank them? No sitters were available, so I hobbled around three three-story units with my crutches, kids in tow, and we got to see units in three distinct phases of renovation. The 4-bedroom hadn’t been started yet and has not been updated since it was built. A 3-bedroom-plus-office was being torn apart and redone. A smaller 3-bedroom was finished and ready to move in. We felt very strongly that we needed the 4-bedroom and wrote a pleading letter explaining our family size, the fact that we homeschool, that we frequently have our parents visiting from out of town to help me out when Derek is gone on work trips, that we hope to be foster parents (and legally needed a fourth bedroom for that), and that my foot was broken and we would rather move later rather than sooner. We got the 4-bedroom! We received some very generous family help to be able to help us put down a down payment, and we are planning to close on it this fall.
One of the amazing things about the timing is that this unit had not been updated since it was built. If it had been, we would have moved in pretty much as-is, 3/4 size oven in tiny kitchen and all. Pepperdine has a policy that when they sell their units, they have to be up to “university standards,” and this one was not, at all. So not only are they slapping a fresh coat of paint on things, they’re redoing the floors, totally remodeling the kitchen, updating bathrooms, and replacing cabinets and countertops. Since they haven’t started any of that, they called and asked me what I would like. If we’d gotten one of the units that was already done, I would have had to have been content with their standard plan, including tile floors in the kitchen and carpet everywhere else. Carpet in the dining room? No thank you! I got to request hardwood floors on the whole first floor, and after four years of linoleum and nasty rental carpet, I can’t wait. This afternoon, I went over to the unit to meet with the real estate director and the university designer to talk about my preferences. It was truly the best of all worlds–a professional designer who has already figured out color palates that work with my vague ideas, getting to choose between options that the university is paying for (so I’m not tempted to just pick the cheapest option because it’s cheapest), and a custom-designed, brand-new kitchen that takes into account the fact that we have a large family, homeschool, and want to host students a lot. The only disappointment was that they’re putting in stainless steel appliances. Gag! Ugly, utilitarian-looking, hard to clean, show fingerprints, opposite of my aesthetic in every possible way. Anyway, other than the fact that I’ll have ugly appliances and won’t have a yard or privacy, I really am excited to move! We will close on the house once the renovations are done, probably late October or early November.
Here are a ton of pictures of it, as is. Can’t wait for the “after” shots!

The garage is not attached, so we’ll walk through this entryway to the front door. No biggie since it never rains there. I might try growing flowers again.

family room out to patio. Any advice on window coverings appreciated. I hate blinds, so I’m thinking roman shades?

Me in pain. This wall of the family room backs up to the fireplace wall of the living room, sortof like our current set-up.

Standing in the family room, looking into the kitchen and the room beyond, which will both be turned into a huge, new kitchen! That hideous tile flooring covers literally every inch of the floors, stairs, bedrooms, and all. Shudder.

Living room from the fireplace, stairs going up to our bedroom. We’re going to paint that big wall a light greenish accent color. Window ideas? I’m thinking we just won’t cover the round one?

This one shows you how high the ceilings are in that room. Walkway across to our bedroom door above, and if you walk straight past me, you turn right to go downstairs to the kids’ rooms, or keep straight to hit the hall closet, bathroom, and front door (and through the window, the garage door).

master bedroom. All of our bedrooms are going to be light gray. I’m finally going to get rid of the hand-me-down valances and bedspread that were never really my style and plan to embrace a navy/yellow/gray color scheme. Even plotting to repaint our furniture! Curtain ideas here? We’ll probably put a desk under this window.

Going downstairs to the 1st floor. You can’t get away from the ugly tile. Straight ahead, tiny laundry room!!! I won’t have to wash my clothes in the garage anymore!!!!

Tommy’s room. All three of the downstairs bedrooms have doors leading out to our tiny patio which is at the edge of the mountain. Will have to figure out how to do child-proof locks on all of those. What am I going to do with this tiny narrow window and glass door?

Tommy’s room. I hate sliding closet doors like this. We have them in our current house. They eat up an entire wall, making furniture placement tricky. And they all have these mirrors. Because a mother of four young children really wants to clean floor-to-ceiling mirrors all the time.

Coming out of Tommy’s room, turning left, and looking into the girls’ room on the left and the guest room/sewing room (!) on the right.

Girls’ room. Since I don’t plan on them ever going out this sliding door, I plan to treat them like one big window.

Girls’ closet. Okay, Grandpa Willett. Can you turn this closet into something like their current California Closets system, for a fraction of the price? Storage is going to be at a premium here…

Back to the second floor, view out of the family room to the back patio and beyond. That’s the law school down to the left!

Out on the patio. Since we have no yard, this is it for play space. Will probably have a little table and chairs, and not much else…

Flooring! The hideous tile will be replaced by the hardwood on the main floor, tile in the bathrooms, and carpet in the bedrooms. Apparently wider planks of wood are the “new thing” in home decorating.
That’s it! Seriously, if you have ideas for window treatments, please pass them along!
Jul 29th, 2015 by ECM
Since it takes me so long to get myself up and ready for the day with one foot, I haven’t been leaving my bedroom until I’m fully dressed and booted up, often not until 8 am! (I made the mistake on Monday of getting up and NOT getting my boot on right away–and kinda hurt my foot again trying to get Janie down for an early nap after she fell asleep in the middle of the living room floor. Let’s just say it was extremely painful, and I’m not leaving my room without the boot ever again.) So the kids are getting used to fending for themselves for a while in the morning. Apparently, photo shoots are a popular way to start the day…
Jul 24th, 2015 by ECM
As someone noted at church on Sunday, we have four children and three feet. This has not been easy, even with Sarah doing my grocery shopping and taking my kids for playdates several times a week, our community group bringing meals, Samara back in service babysitting and taking the kids to swimming lessons, and various friends coming over the lunch hour to help entertain and feed my kids. So after hearing several people including Elsa recommend a knee walker, I gave in and rented one. Yep, I’m wheelin’ through the house in style. The girls think it’s the best inside toy ever!

(Lovely picture courtesy of Tommy, my even lovelier expression courtesy of an unnamed sister who was crying because she couldn’t take the very important picture.)
Jul 23rd, 2015 by ECM
Joshua and John-Luke invited us over for a tea party on Monday. The kids looked so cute all dressed up! (And Janie threw up on the way home from Camarillo, because what I really needed on top of everything else was to deal with vomit on a bum leg. Fortunately we saw the neighbors starting off for a bike ride, and Tanya came over to help get Janie out and cleaned up while I hobbled into the house. Guess Bug still needs children’s dramamine for car rides over 20 minutes.)